Sorry to hear this. It’s fucked up and savage behavior. It’s everywhere, thankfully, not everyone. However, the experience leaves you frazzled and always on guard for the next slasher of proper civilized behavior. A friend of mine recently had the old ‘monkey go back to Africa’ routine from someone recently. If only, they would stop pillaging Africa and live with what they have stolen for the last 500 years. I told my friend, half-jokingly, to tell them next time that they are not as intelligent as a monkey with such asinine comment, and THEY should go back to their caves where such behavior and talk is likely acceptable. It’s juvenile behavior, I know, but why two standards!? Ultimately, it’s better not to lower yourself to that level. Stay the royalty you are.